The Mother Solution

learn what a toxic relationship with your mother looks like, understand who they are how to change the relationship.

Trust yourself, set boundaries and live your life on your terms with confidence and peace.

Finally have a sense of peace knowing there is nothing wrong with you. Make new choices, own your power and live the life you are meant to live.

Lisa Vastine, Certifed Life Coach specializing in helping people change their relationship with their mother

Do you have a Narcissistic mother?

Take the quiz!


Being raised by a narcicisstic mother has an

affect

your life in so many ways.

  • You are tired of being tired. It is exhausting keeping up with your mothers manipulation and control tactics.

  • You feel like you are not enough. Something is wrong with you.

  • Your self-worth is …. not there.

  • You are tired of questioning and doubting yourself. The gaslighting has made you question your sanity.

  • You are tired of walking on eggs shells and feeling like you can never do anything right.

  • you are frustrated and hurt. It may feel hopeless.

Click the button below to take control of your life and start living it on your terms.

 

The life you want is within your reach, and you deserve to be and have anything you want.

Are sick and tired of the emotional roller coaster you have been on with your mother for way too long?

 
  • You don’t live your best life because you question your worth and you’ve been living this way for way too long.

  • You are tired of feeling like something is wrong with you. You have anxiety, confusion and feel hopeless in your relationship and stuck in the toxic dynamic.

  • You doubt yourself and question your decisions. You make

What if your life looked more like this

CONFIDENCE
Imagine being free from wanting your mothers approval. You are confident in who you are. You choose what is best for you.

FREEDOM!
Having a new awareness about your mother and who you are- what you want and how to get it.

YOU ARE IN CONTROL!
Knowing nothing is wrong with you. You trust yourself. You take care of yourself and your needs. You are a warrior!

POWER!
Your life feels lighter. You know how to handle your mother. Your entire life feels different. You know your value and you don’t let anyone abuse you.

 Here is how to get started

• Schedule a time to talk with me. 

  • Work with me to learn how to make the changes with your mother.

  • Move through those changes with a strong sense of worth and confidence.

You can live your best life starting

NOW

Feel confident  trust yourself take care of yourself Create the life you want on your terms 

Become more of who you truly are

When we work together you will learn

  • How to trust your self again 

  • How to navigate through the dysfunctional relationship.

  •  How to have the confidence you deserve to have.

  • How to set boundaries how to keep them and what to expect. 

  • Understanding your triggers and preparing ahead. (Eventually, you won’t feel triggered)

  • Heal your anger, sadness, and exhaustion over your mothers control and manipulation.

  • Learn the tricks,tips and secrets to completely change the relationship.

  • Deciding how much contact you want to have. Full contact, low contact or no contact. it is all ok.

  • The best way to communicate ( there are tricks here).

  • How to heal and take care of yourself.

  • Have the peace of mind you deserve.

    FREEDOM !!!! Happiness!!!

You can go for bigger and better things in your life because you deserve it and you finally know it!

Testimonials

Thank you Lisa. I am myself again! I was so tired of the patterns of anger, hurt and arguing. I truly didn’t see how it was going to change- I have tried to improve things with my mother in the past. With what I learned from getting coached by you has literally changed my life! I wish I would have known this sooner! I wasted years. I finally feel free. I know I can handle whatever comes my way. I just can’t believe it! Thank you, thank you , thank you! I cannot recommend working with LisaV enough!!!

Mary